Chabwino, abale ndi alongo a theka ndi alongo sali pachibale nkomwe, kotero sichingaganizidwe kukhala chinthu choipa kapena chachiwerewere. Nzosadabwitsa kuti munthu wamkulu mnyamata ndi mtsikana, popanda zibwenzi nthawi zonse zogonana ndipo pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kukhala pafupi wina ndi mzake, mwadzidzidzi anakopeka pa mlingo kugonana wina ndi mnzake. Poganizira kuti mtsikanayo ankakonda (mnyamata ndiye palibe funso), ndikuganiza kuti apitiriza kuchita zinthu zamtunduwu nthawi ndi nthawi.
Kusankhidwa kwapamwamba, popanda zongopeka kapena zochitika zakale. Kutentha kwambiri). Kusiyanitsa kosangalatsa, mwa njira - akuda ndi atsikana aang'ono, kawirikawiri ndikuganiza kuti kugonana pakati pa mafuko ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo zabwino kwambiri pa zolaula, pali chinachake chachilendo komanso chosangalatsa. Kuphatikizanso, sikuti ndi zapamwamba zokha, komanso, titero, mayendedwe osiyanasiyana mwanjira ya kugonana mkamwa ndi kumatako.